|| Discovering your primary love language ||

Discovering the primary love language of your spouse is essential, if you are to keep their emotional love tank full. But, first let's make sure, you know your own love language. Having heard the five emotional love languages,

#1. Words of affirmation

#2. Quality time

#3. Act of service

#4. Physical touch

#5. Receiving gifts

Some individuals will know instantaneously their own primary love language and that if their spouse. For others, it will not be that easy.

Your picture of a perfect mate should give you some idea of your primary language.

I have suggested three ways to discover your primary love language :

1. What does your spouse do or fail to do that hurts you most deeply? The opposite of what hurts you is most probably your love language.

2. What have you most often requested of your spouse? The thing you have most often requested is likely the thing that would make you feel most loved.

3. In what way do you regularly express love to your spouse? Your method of expressing love may be an indication that would also make you feel loved.

Using these three approaches will probably enable you to determine your primary love language.

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