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Five love languages

Number of ways to express love within love language is limited only by your imagination.

With all the help available from experts, why have so few couple found the secret to keeping love alive?

The answer to this question is people speaks different love languages. most of  Us grow up learning the language of our parents, siblings, which becomes our primary or native love language. Later we learn additional languages - but usually with much more efforts. These becomes our secondary language. 
In the area of love, it is similar your emotional love language and language of your spouse may be as different as Chinese from English. No matter how hard you try to express love in English, if your spouse understand only Chinese, you will never understand how to love each other. We must willing to learn our spouse's primary love languages, if we want to become effective communicator of love.

Five love languages : 

We need love before we " fell in love" and we will need it as long as we live.

Love language #1
Words of affirmation : 

Verbal compliments are far greater motivator than nagging words 

Before you seat down to eat, place a lable or sign in each other chair describing who to seat There - " Best husband/wife in the words, " my favourite person, "my little princess " watch their faces light up and their love tanks fill. Occasionally email or text a note of affirmation during the day or when one of you is Traveling, or if you know your spouse is having a hard day. Send a link to a funny website.

Love language #2
Quality time : 

She doens't really hate your job, she hates the fact that she feels so little love coming from you.

By quality time I mean giving someone your undivided attention. I don't mean sitting on the couch watching television together. When you spend time that way, Netflix, HBO has your attention not your partner. What I mean is sitting on the couch with TV off, looking at each other and talking, devices put away, giving each other your undivided attention.

Love language #3 
Receiving gifts : 

Visual symbols of lobe are more important to some people than others.

Gifts are the visual Symbols of love, most wedding ceremonies include the giving and receiving of rings. The person performing the ceremony says, " These rings are outword and visible signs of an inword and the spiritual bond that unites your two heart in love that has two end. That is not meaningless rhetoric.

Love language #4
Act of service : 

No one likes to be forced to do anything. Love is always freely given.

Learning the love language of act of service will require some of us to re-examine our sterotypes of the roles of husband and wives.
A willingness to examine and change sterotypes is necessary in order to express love more effectively. Remember there are no rewards for maintaining sterotypes, but there are tremendous benefits to meeting the emotional needs of your spouse. If your spouse's love language is act of service, then "action speaks louder than words" 

Love language #5 
Physical touch : 

If your spouse's primary love language is physical touch, nothing is more important than holding her as she cries

In our society, shaking hands is way of communicating oppness and social closeness to another individual, when a family or friends are visiting, touch your partner in their presence. Running the hands through their hairs, giving a back rub, sexual intercourse - all of those and other " love touches" .

Conclusion : 

Your love life can always be better, it just needs willingness to understand the emotional love languages of our partners.



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