Skip to main content

❤️⏺️ Keeping the love tank full ⏺️❤️

Love is the most important word in the English language and the most confusing. Both secular and religious thinker agree that love plays a central role in life. Love has a prominent role in thousands of books, songs, magazines and movies.

We need love before we " fell in love" and we will need it as long as we live .

I am convinced that keeping the emotional love tank full is as important to a marriage as maintaining the proper oil level is to an automobile. Running your relationship on empty "love tank" may cost you even more than trying to drive your car without oil.

With all the help available from experts, why have so few couples found the secret to keeping love alive?? 


The answer to this question is people speak different love languages. Most of us grown up learning the language of our parents, siblings, which becomes our primary language. Later we learn additional languages, but with much more efforts. These becomes our secondary languages. 
In the area of love, it's similar, your emotional love language and the language of your spouse may be as different as Chinese from English. No matter how hard you try to express love in English, if your spouse only understand Chinese, you will never understand how to love each other. We must willing to learn our partner primary  love language, if we want to become effective communicator of love.

Conclusion : 
The number of ways to express love within love languages is limited only by imagination.
Labels:

Comments

Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

The accountability mirror challenge by David Goggins

  The only way to improve yourself is to hold yourself accountable for the choices you made in your life.   This forces you to look at the things you have an influence on and take responsibility for. It frees you from any factors outside of your control. So how does this concept work and how can you apply it to your life? Like a lot of other concepts I discuss on this blog, this one is free of charge as well and very easy to start. This concept by David Goggins is another take on the affirmation exercise. Where you put post-its on the mirror of things that you are grateful for. How to start with David Goggins’s accountability mirror challenge? Stand in front of the mirror and look yourself in the eye for five minutes straight. What is going through your head? What do you think about the person you see in the mirror? Write those things down and make sure you discuss those with yourself later on. Now there are a lot of personal things you can hold yourself accountabl...
Post a Comment
Read more

|| Misleading Descriptions Of a Woman’s Beauty ||

    Beauty is a mental concept Though a lady appears to be gentle and soft, yet she becomes rude, rough and distinctly masculine when she becomes angry. The feminine grace vanishes when she comes under the influence of wrath, indignation, fury and resentment. Have you ever seen women fighting in the streets? Women are more jealous than men. They have more Moha and passion also. They are eight times more passionate than men. Women have more power of endurance.  Maya havocs through the imagination of the mind. Woman is not beautiful, but the imagination is beautiful. Sugar is not sweet, but the imagination is sweet. Food is not palatable, but the imagination is palatable. Man is not weak, but the imagination is weak. Understand the nature of Maya and mind and become wise. Curb this imagination of the mind by Vichara or right thinking and rest in Brahman wherein there is neither imagination nor thought. Beauty and ugliness are false imaginations of the mind. ...
Post a Comment
Read more

Semen Retention

  I’ve been reading to Swami Sivananda book The Practice of Brahmacharya and I want to discuss with you one concept that resonated with me "Semen Retention". As a king is no king without a treasury, subjects and an army, as a flower is no flower without fragrance, as a river is no river without water, so also, a man is no man without Brahmacharya (semen retention). Instincts and appetites form a part of all life on earth. Sense impulses and biological   urges are common to animal and man alike.  Sex is one of the prominent, most important and absolutely essential aspects of human, animal as well as plant life. Sex is an integral part of life—human, animal and plant. While this aspect of life is regulated by nature in plants and by instinct in animals,  In man it is left to his common-sense, intelligence and his developed reason to control and regulate the same. The vast and ancient scriptures of the world offer human society specific rule...
Post a Comment
Read more