Love is the most important word in the English language and the most confusing. Both secular and religious thinker agree that love plays a central role in life. Love has a prominent role in thousands of books, songs, magazines and movies.
We need love before we " fell in love" and we will need it as long as we live .
I am convinced that keeping the emotional love tank full is as important to a marriage as maintaining the proper oil level is to an automobile. Running your relationship on empty "love tank" may cost you even more than trying to drive your car without oil.
With all the help available from experts, why have so few couples found the secret to keeping love alive??
The answer to this question is people speak different love languages. Most of us grown up learning the language of our parents, siblings, which becomes our primary language. Later we learn additional languages, but with much more efforts. These becomes our secondary languages.
In the area of love, it's similar, your emotional love language and the language of your spouse may be as different as Chinese from English. No matter how hard you try to express love in English, if your spouse only understand Chinese, you will never understand how to love each other. We must willing to learn our partner primary love language, if we want to become effective communicator of love.
Conclusion :
The number of ways to express love within love languages is limited only by imagination.
Keep glowing keep loving��
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