I become very insightful after reading the book called "THE WAY OF SUPERIOR MAN" by "DAVID DAIDA", I recommend this book to every man who wants to elevate their life with women, life, and career.
We always think in our daily life, as our programming from childhood is like that by watching movies, love series or from our elder's, friends that if you make a woman your priority then she will love you even more and make you her number one priority but, opposite is TRUE.
She never wanted to be the number ONE, She wanted to be with number ONE.
"Men chase championships, and Women chase champions"
She Doesn't Really Want to Be Number One
A woman
sometimes seems to want to
be the most important thing
in her man's life. However, if she is the most important thing,
then she feels her man has made her the number one priority and is not fully dedicated or directed to divine growth and service. She will feel her man's dependence on her for his happiness, and this will make her feel smothered
by his neediness and clinging.
A woman really wants her man
to be totally dedicated to his highest
purpose—and also to love her fully. Although
she would never admit it, she wants to feel that her man would be willing to sacrifice their relationship for the sake of his highest purpose.
"Please don't go, "she begs.
"You know that I must," he answers. They look at each other deeply
in the eyes.
"You know that I love you, "he says to her.
"Yes. I know. And I also know you must go," she replies, and another gush of tears bursts from her heartbroken face.
He turns and walks out the door, to his necessary destiny, as his woman, full of pain and pride, watches him disappear.
A man's highest purpose is his priority, not his intimacy. Your woman knows this. Deep inside, she really wants it to be this way. The woman in the scene above would actually feel strange if her man suddenly said, " I've changed my mind. You are more important to me than the freedom of mankind.
You are the most important thing in my life, and I don't care if my service to humanity is needed elsewhere, so I'm staying here with you." Even though part of her would feel glad, a deeper part of her would feel deflated, emptied, let down.
If a woman has become the point of your life, you are lost. You have a gift to give, a purpose to fulfill, a deep heart-impulse that moves you. If you have lost touch with this impulse, then you will begin to feel ambiguous in your life.
You will make decisions because you have to, but they won't be guided by a deeper sense of purpose. You may take on your woman's purpose because they are stronger than yours.
You may adapt your need for direction to externally regulated purposes, becoming a cogwheel company man or a dead-ended husband and parent, without leaving yourself open to your own greatest vision.
It is easy to fill your day with chores and obligations, coming up for air only long enough to watch some TV or have quick sex. It's also easy to give up entirely on living a life of absolute commitment to truth, settling for the common life, or absolute commitment to work, family, intimacy, and friends.
Yet, you can only be a superior professional, father, husband, and friend when you are living these relationships as gifts given from your core, not as what's leftover because you don't have the guts to discover your core impulse and live on its basis.
If you aren't living from your core, giving your fullest gifts, everyone will feel your lack of true purpose. Your kids will challenge your authority. And your woman won't trust you.
Even though she may seem to want to be the center of your life, she doesn't. She wants you to know the center of your life.
SHE WANTS YOU, TO FIND YOUR LIFE PURPOSE
If you discovered the purpose springing from your deepest core, and if your entire life is aligned by this purpose, your woman will feel the truth of your choice. Though she may not always like your choices, she will love them.
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